Here is Wednesday's Life Court!
Scott and Sadie,
When I break up with someone, I completely cut off all contact. But my girlfriend of a year is different. She's stayed in touch with almost every guy she's ever dated, and she's still friends with some of them.
Even though I know she'd never cheat on me, it kinda bothers me that my girlfriend is so friendly with her exes. One of them will be in town to visit friends next month, and he's going to stay at her place - for a WEEK. I mean, it's been six years since they dated, but I know he's really important to her, and it bothers me that he'll be sleeping in her apartment.
They dated for about 2-years and broke up a little over 6 years ago. I respect her and don't want to be overbearing. But damnit, this just seems disrespectful of me. Should I say something? Do I have the right? Do most people stay friends with their exes? Wouldn't most guys be jealous? Or am I overreacting?
Okay. What's your advice for Paul in Scott and Sadie's Life Court?